If something's hurting me, I go to Alex. It wasn't always like that, but it has been for a while. He's the first person I think of.

Back when I didn't go to him? It was because our relationship wasn't good. There was too much that was hard between us, so he wasn't my confidante. You were, or Maria was.

I think you need to work out with him why he's coming to others and not you. If there's something blocking him maybe that's what you need to deal with.