These days, yes. Like a lot of traditions the origins are questionable but acknowledging the ability to change -- both oneself and the intent behind things like traditions -- is meaningful. And I know my parents wouldn't mind how far I'm straying from our culture to make this right for us.
Not that I can think of. We're already borrowing dining sets from friends in the building.
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Not that I can think of. We're already borrowing dining sets from friends in the building.