You have me curious now, as to what sorts of things. We talk so broadly, but I don't know if I can help or offer assurance without knowing more specifics. If you're willing to talk about it.
And for the record, being kind to yourself and having something poor come from it does not mean you should never indulge again, it means you should learn what part went wrong and adjust for that. Sticking your hand in the fire is going to burn, that doesn't mean you shouldn't warm yourself by it later.
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And for the record, being kind to yourself and having something poor come from it does not mean you should never indulge again, it means you should learn what part went wrong and adjust for that. Sticking your hand in the fire is going to burn, that doesn't mean you shouldn't warm yourself by it later.