Here's hoping it works in this case as well. Until he goes out of his way to avoid me, I'm going to try and remind him how dangerous the path he's been on is.
[ He's just not sure it's going to work, or that Nick isn't going to vanish on him again of his own freewill and others will again hide it all from him. ]
He DOES??? Wow, I didn't think there were therapists here.
Good for him tho. Anyway, I got very limited experience with relationships, but being very upfront about my feelings an expectations has worked out so far.
He has someone he speaks with. Or he did. I don't know them personally so not even sure they're still in the city.
[ Everyone else he turns to, Kyle is fairly certain he's involved with and possibly in love with despite his words on that. Even with him for a time. ]
It's what I'm trying to do, and accepting he might not like that and I can't change that. Not an easy thing to accept but I know its the truth.
You're almost the perfect guy. I'm really glad I'm in a committed relationship with the actual perfect guy already, otherwise you'd be such a problem for me.
I mean it as a compliment, I think you bf is lucky to have you.
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[ He's just not sure it's going to work, or that Nick isn't going to vanish on him again of his own freewill and others will again hide it all from him. ]
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But if he can find someone to talk to who's not emotionally invested, he should.
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I'll look into it though with him, because I really want him to try and work this all out.
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Good for him tho. Anyway, I got very limited experience with relationships, but being very upfront about my feelings an expectations has worked out so far.
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[ Everyone else he turns to, Kyle is fairly certain he's involved with and possibly in love with despite his words on that. Even with him for a time. ]
It's what I'm trying to do, and accepting he might not like that and I can't change that. Not an easy thing to accept but I know its the truth.
We both want to do what we can though.
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Tho you strike me as a guy who doesn't change their mind ever once in love.
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I wasn't blind going into things.
I think that is the best of my attributes but I suspect others don't always agree.
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I mean it as a compliment, I think you bf is lucky to have you.
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Thanks. I thikn I'm the lucky one, I admit. It still means a lot to me he was willing to take a chance with me.