These days, yes. Like a lot of traditions the origins are questionable but acknowledging the ability to change -- both oneself and the intent behind things like traditions -- is meaningful. And I know my parents wouldn't mind how far I'm straying from our culture to make this right for us.
Not that I can think of. We're already borrowing dining sets from friends in the building.
Good. I'm glad. My mom was like that as well. So long as it was right for me so I'm glad you have the same. I'm glad we get to share this with you as well.
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Not that I can think of. We're already borrowing dining sets from friends in the building.
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If you think of anything, let me know.