sometime next week. got a 17yo who's way too skinny and doesn't have much of an appetite. got him to agree to a check-up, but i think a hospital would stress him out.
i'll probably drop by haven before that tho, i think the city healed cumulative damage to my knees but i won't fully buy it until i see it.
I'll let you know. I'm waiting bc shit always goes down either at the end or at the beginning of the month. Also, kid's got a date today, he's meeting up with Nick and one of his friends at the Scratch.
His name's Andy too and I sort of adopted him. Anyway it'd be at our place, we named it The Canadian Consulate (both Andy and my Dom are Canadian)
And re: my knees. I lost my scars at the beginning of the month, but also lost the knee pain. Thought it'd come back when the scars did, but it didn't. Figure I can get an MRI to see what happened.
Yeah, it's just about that time for things to go to hell.
You're worried he's possibly underfed and malnourished and he's out with Nick? If he falls out of the night, let me know. Though Scratch milkshakes might help.
That explains your id on here. Fair enough.
We can get a look at things and see what's going on. You weren't the only one that lost something, though yours is the only one that sounds like a positive.
Understandable though with this place. Glad he's got you to look out for him.
He's trying to put on a good front that everything's okay. He always does. Trying not to hover myself, but I don't know what to think. I know I wouldn't be okay.
As a former fan of playing martyr, I think hovering is the way to go tbh. Mt best friend was persistently there and also kept calling me an idiot, it sunk in eventually.
Here's hoping it works in this case as well. Until he goes out of his way to avoid me, I'm going to try and remind him how dangerous the path he's been on is.
[ He's just not sure it's going to work, or that Nick isn't going to vanish on him again of his own freewill and others will again hide it all from him. ]
He DOES??? Wow, I didn't think there were therapists here.
Good for him tho. Anyway, I got very limited experience with relationships, but being very upfront about my feelings an expectations has worked out so far.
He has someone he speaks with. Or he did. I don't know them personally so not even sure they're still in the city.
[ Everyone else he turns to, Kyle is fairly certain he's involved with and possibly in love with despite his words on that. Even with him for a time. ]
It's what I'm trying to do, and accepting he might not like that and I can't change that. Not an easy thing to accept but I know its the truth.
You're almost the perfect guy. I'm really glad I'm in a committed relationship with the actual perfect guy already, otherwise you'd be such a problem for me.
I mean it as a compliment, I think you bf is lucky to have you.
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i'll probably drop by haven before that tho, i think the city healed cumulative damage to my knees but i won't fully buy it until i see it.
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Your place. Somewhere public-ish. Wherever they're comfortable.
You're always welcome. Healed?
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His name's Andy too and I sort of adopted him. Anyway it'd be at our place, we named it The Canadian Consulate (both Andy and my Dom are Canadian)
And re: my knees. I lost my scars at the beginning of the month, but also lost the knee pain. Thought it'd come back when the scars did, but it didn't. Figure I can get an MRI to see what happened.
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You're worried he's possibly underfed and malnourished and he's out with Nick? If he falls out of the night, let me know. Though Scratch milkshakes might help.
That explains your id on here. Fair enough.
We can get a look at things and see what's going on.
You weren't the only one that lost something, though yours is the only one that sounds like a positive.
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is Nick okay? I know he got wrapped in the angry demon thing and he missed his piercing class.
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He's trying to put on a good front that everything's okay. He always does. Trying not to hover myself, but I don't know what to think. I know I wouldn't be okay.
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[ He's just not sure it's going to work, or that Nick isn't going to vanish on him again of his own freewill and others will again hide it all from him. ]
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But if he can find someone to talk to who's not emotionally invested, he should.
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I'll look into it though with him, because I really want him to try and work this all out.
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Good for him tho. Anyway, I got very limited experience with relationships, but being very upfront about my feelings an expectations has worked out so far.
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[ Everyone else he turns to, Kyle is fairly certain he's involved with and possibly in love with despite his words on that. Even with him for a time. ]
It's what I'm trying to do, and accepting he might not like that and I can't change that. Not an easy thing to accept but I know its the truth.
We both want to do what we can though.
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Tho you strike me as a guy who doesn't change their mind ever once in love.
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I wasn't blind going into things.
I think that is the best of my attributes but I suspect others don't always agree.
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I mean it as a compliment, I think you bf is lucky to have you.
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Thanks. I thikn I'm the lucky one, I admit. It still means a lot to me he was willing to take a chance with me.