You should definitely explore things with those you trust. Its something I've learned here and maybe it's giving in to a degree but I like that I can throw myself fully into things I've never had before.
I would be thrilled, Chris. Hearing that means a lot. I can utterly switch but when I'm in a dominant position, I never want to abuse that position. Use someone, certainly but nothing more.
If you can switch, I'd be happy to return the favor if ever your regular choices aren't available or if you've need of something you're uncomfortable asking them for. But use over abuse is what I'd be looking for. We can talk limits and comfort zones another time, though. I don't do scenes in either direction without full conversations, if that's alright with you.
Or if I would just enjoy that with you. I did the bit of it at the party, after all, and would look forward to it again.
I am absolutely for that. We can't always help what this place does but when we can set rules I think it should be done. I think its good for us in this place and in general.
Or that, yes. I very much enjoyed what we did at the party and I can think of more than one follow-up.
I whole-heartedly agree. There's times we don't have the choice in things, but better to make that choice for ourselves outside of those times. I'd rather take enjoyment where I can rather than wait in fear of what they might put into our heads next.
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I would be thrilled, Chris. Hearing that means a lot. I can utterly switch but when I'm in a dominant position, I never want to abuse that position. Use someone, certainly but nothing more.
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If you can switch, I'd be happy to return the favor if ever your regular choices aren't available or if you've need of something you're uncomfortable asking them for.
But use over abuse is what I'd be looking for. We can talk limits and comfort zones another time, though.
I don't do scenes in either direction without full conversations, if that's alright with you.
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I am absolutely for that. We can't always help what this place does but when we can set rules I think it should be done. I think its good for us in this place and in general.
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I whole-heartedly agree. There's times we don't have the choice in things, but better to make that choice for ourselves outside of those times. I'd rather take enjoyment where I can rather than wait in fear of what they might put into our heads next.
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I'm sorry we met like we did but honestly, I'm glad we met.
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Me too. I'm glad I came to talk to you, but more: I'm glad I flirted with you.
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Maybe over dinner? My place? Beautiful views and I'm a decent cook.
Oh definitely glad you flirting, and hope you do it so often.
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And I'll definitely keep flirting, it's favorite pastime.
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Good. It's charming on you.
(ooc: Up for me making it a thread? Flirting and negotiating and such?
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(ooc: absolutely!)
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