( that did make sense, sexual health in terms of safety in sex rather than just health )
I can't say I've had a lot of experience with injuries caused for those reasons but bruising, lacerations and dislocations can come from anywhere. So... any doctor should be able to help with some of that.
( she didn't have ortho experience for dislocations other than simple dislocations. but you always wanted knowledge on tbem )
Very true. A safe space at all sometimes, though that is stepping into ground where I've risked getting a citation but it won't stop me either.
[ He nods at that, not thinking about the fond smile he gives at that. ]
There's a few professional psychiatrists here. Harley. Andy. Venrille. They're the three I know personally and professionally. All good people. Venrille is a sex therapist by profession so that is useful here.
Anything in our patient's corner can only benefit them.
( because anyone that did dabble in kink knew that if you engaged with it you needed something on the other side, support if it had gotten too much or just the ability to stop. or good care for any bruises or wounds sustained. a willing partner should know that but not everyone here was a willing partner )
Would it be worth offering more support? Even a 'PSA: aftercare for your activities'? They might not all start willingly but they can take the basic care of their partner after.
( assuming, of course, they were enough in their mind for it )
I always think such things are a good choice. I know someone who was here before offered some information regularly on risk aware consensual kink but he's been gone a while.
Better than my last PSA as well which was: Do not use these holiday decorations for sex toys.
[ The way this place has made him look at things has definitely been interesting. ]
( she chuckles slightly at that and wishes she could see it. maybe there was video archive )
I could think of something useful for that. Though I'd rather rope a partner into it.
( not strictly for demonstration of using certain items but also... she'll figure it out. it could be an informative partner or something else. it's too new an idea )
Not assuming you mean a director or surgeon or anything but I'm curious just what you have in mind. Or do you mean someone in the BDSM safety ideals? Because I am the same. Experienced. Though I do know some here who are experts.
I could help, though I am not experienced much in the whole lifestyle and all outside of what I've learned here. I won't say all of it was the safest either, but if I can help, I'm there.
Aftercare though is my specialty. It's where I like to put focus into things more than anything else. With bondage or anything else.
[ A brief time he had lost that desire and given into another but it's only made him more determined to show those he's with how much he can be there for them. ]
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( that did make sense, sexual health in terms of safety in sex rather than just health )
I can't say I've had a lot of experience with injuries caused for those reasons but bruising, lacerations and dislocations can come from anywhere. So... any doctor should be able to help with some of that.
( she didn't have ortho experience for dislocations other than simple dislocations. but you always wanted knowledge on tbem )
I imagine the how is the... more complicated.
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Trust me, I didn't either though sadly it's usually not as sexual as you'd think. Like you said, dislocations and lacerations.
[ He sighs and nods. ]
Which sometimes makes it hard. They don't want to talk about it, or they want to talk about all of it.
Luckily I've only once been asked to carve a name and date on someone's rib, so I think I can handle what they give me. I think you can too.
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( offering whilst treating them, letting them know of options without overly pushing )
Are there additional services here? Advice, information--
( not strictly therapy but someone more skilled in what they can talk about )
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[ He nods at that, not thinking about the fond smile he gives at that. ]
There's a few professional psychiatrists here. Harley. Andy. Venrille. They're the three I know personally and professionally. All good people. Venrille is a sex therapist by profession so that is useful here.
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( because anyone that did dabble in kink knew that if you engaged with it you needed something on the other side, support if it had gotten too much or just the ability to stop. or good care for any bruises or wounds sustained. a willing partner should know that but not everyone here was a willing partner )
Would it be worth offering more support? Even a 'PSA: aftercare for your activities'? They might not all start willingly but they can take the basic care of their partner after.
( assuming, of course, they were enough in their mind for it )
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Better than my last PSA as well which was: Do not use these holiday decorations for sex toys.
[ The way this place has made him look at things has definitely been interesting. ]
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I could think of something useful for that. Though I'd rather rope a partner into it.
( not strictly for demonstration of using certain items but also... she'll figure it out. it could be an informative partner or something else. it's too new an idea )
I'm not an expert just... experienced.
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[ He can't help but smile at that. ]
Not assuming you mean a director or surgeon or anything but I'm curious just what you have in mind. Or do you mean someone in the BDSM safety ideals? Because I am the same. Experienced. Though I do know some here who are experts.
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( certainly not an entire act, clothes can be on for all of it )
Like a wrist in a restraint for guidance, potentially safely tying it if you don't have a standard restraint.
( says she who's going to use scarves as blindfolds soon but that's very different to her wrists )
Some people trying something new wouldn't have good equipment, that's who might most need advice. And good aftercare.
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Aftercare though is my specialty. It's where I like to put focus into things more than anything else. With bondage or anything else.
[ A brief time he had lost that desire and given into another but it's only made him more determined to show those he's with how much he can be there for them. ]
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( very weird and unsexy. at least phrasing it that way. though with him she wasn't currently considering that )
But you could learn to tie up your partners.