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[adultflash]

[There are two cards delivered to Kyle and Alex's house, one labeled for Kyle and the other for Alex. Kyle's is this one.]

[drmcsexy]

More than tacos? Wow, that's a lot.

[adultflash]

It is a lot. Like really, tacos are my favorite. And I mean it in a totally non-silly way, also.

[drmcsexy]

I didn't think it was silly, Barry. Not at all.

[adultflash]

Okay good. I was just thinking that we never really talked about us and I didn't want you to think I don't have feelings for you also, because I really, really do.

[drmcsexy]

And that, as well, isn't anything silly either.
I know there's many that think they shouldn't give into their emotions here, because we might vanish but I don't agree with that.

[adultflash]

I think there are some people here who are just scared of feelings in general, which is why I was a little hesitant to even bring it up. Not because I am, but because I know people who are, including my own Dominant. Or some people are okay with some labels but not others. Are we dating?

[drmcsexy]

I don't think that's for me exclusively to say. Everyone sees dating different. I know I do since coming here and how long I've been here.

What are your feelings on it?

[adultflash]

I'd like to be - I know my feelings for you are way more than physical. Caitlin is the only one here I've had in the girlfriend category so far, but I'm sort of nebulously dating Kate and Kazu and Val, in different ways.

I'm sort of a sappy romantic at heart, if it's not totally obvious. I'd like to take you out to dinner, or go for long walks on the beach, or bring you flowers. Things like that. That kind of stuff weirds people out sometimes though.

[drmcsexy]

That is one thing that makes me more comfortable. I was involved with someone very possessive and it was not a good situation in the end, but it took me a while to figure that out.

I'm not against any of those things, and I think they're sweet and very welcome. It doesn't weird me out, not at all. I just like taking things slow romantically. We don't get much choices otherwise, in taking things slow, so after what things I have rushed into, I am just careful about it now.

[adultflash]

I'm sorry, I promise I would never be like that. With any of my partners I'd want them to feel comfortable more than anything, and know they can be with whoever else they please, however works for them. No matter where we are in terms of labels. Caitlin is involved with a few different people here herself. We see each other when we can, but there's no pressure.

I should point out that it took most of my life to confess to my wife that I even liked her, so this is actually fast for me. :P I may be a speedster, but I'm all for taking things slow romantically. I'm just also a little bit oblivious as far as intentions go most of the time, so unless I know for sure what someone wants I won't assume.

[drmcsexy]

I'm not saying you would be, Barry. I'm just talking about where I'm at and the things I've had to go through so that I feel that way. I went through a lot and so I'm cautious about people. I care deeply though so it's an odd dichotomy of how I feel sometimes.

I think we're getting to know one another and I like that. Just like I like you, Barry. You're a great guy.

[adultflash]

I understand. I've been through things of my own to be how I am too. But I'd like to keep doing that then, even cautiously. That's okay with me, really.

[drmcsexy]

I'd like that too. I want to get to know you, Barry.

[adultflash]

How about I make you dinner soon? We can just catch up, nothing fancy.

[drmcsexy]

I'd like that. Sounds like a plan.